The Ultimate Guide to Erotic Massage

Posted on Jan 10, 2015

By Arabella Foxwoman giving a man an erotic massage

Massage is one of the most underrated tools for foreplay, in my opinion. Luckily for you, it’s one that all high class Sydney escorts like to keep in their toolbox! When done properly, massage (even just of the regular back-neck-shoulders variety) is a great way to connect with your partner, develop intimacy and trust, and get in the mood for luuurrrve.

I am a big advocate for massage because it’s all about touch and you know how much I enjoy being touched 😉 Sadly, most of the time in the bedroom we reserve touch for the ‘erogenous zones’ – you know the ones, they make up only about five percent of the body – and ignore the rest of this wonderful playground! So go on, get out there and explore the sensual pleasure of a good scalp massage… or foot massage… or even a strong kneading into sore, tight shoulders. There is a whole world of pleasure waiting to be discovered!

For adventurous chaps seeking a little more spice, erotic massage is the next step. Perhaps your Sydney escort starts off by giving you a full body massage… which progresses to a body slide… which progresses to deliciously expert masturbation and a good old ‘happy ending’ 😉

At the end of the day, massage is all about giving and receiving. If you’d like to experience the erotic and sensual pleasures of massage for yourself, read on for my foolproof step-by-step guide.

1. Set the Mood

If you’re planning a sexy, sensual massage session with your lady then you need to get the setting right first of all. Dim the lights, turn off your phone, play some smooth tunes, light a few candles, and ensure the room is warm enough to comfortably lie naked 😉 Next prepare the space with soft bedding and towels, and make sure you have some massage oil to hand (if not, your Sydney escort can bring some luscious oils with her!)

2. Different Strokes for Different Folks

There are a number of different massage styles you can use to whet your partner’s… ahem… appetite 😉 These are some of my faves:
Compression – press firmly with both hands on either side of the spine
Shiatsu – use thumbs and fingers to relieve pressure points
Friction – lightly rub the skin to build heat and relax tension
Kneading – a harder touch, great for tight areas such as shoulders and upper back
Stroking – light, loving, gliding strokes that feel heavenly across back and buttocks!

3. From Start to Finish

Once you’ve mastered these basic strokes, you can easily combine them into a full body massage. Start on your partner’s back, proceeding to her neck, legs and feet before having her turn over for a seductive chest massage, perhaps circling her nipples with your tongue. Lastly run light, teasing strokes over her inner thighs and pleasure centre… I guarantee she will be moaning for more 😉

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