Perfect for enhancing intimacy and heightening sexual energy, sensual massages can add an extra spark to your love life. If you want to give someone a sexy rubdown but aren’t sure where to start, these tips can turn you into an expert masseuse.
Set the Mood
Don’t just jump on your partner unannounced and start working their shoulder muscles like an overzealous physical therapist. Before getting down to business, take some time to set the mood. Draw the curtains, light some candles and put on a relaxing playlist. This will help you both settle into a state of deep relaxation.
You don’t have to go overboard with your pre-massage setup, but creating a calm atmosphere can make it easier to get in the mood for a sensual massage.
Get Oiled Up
No sensual massage would be complete without a little oil. Perfect for masking inexperience, massage oil can make even a novice masseuse feel like an expert. For the best results, try to find an oil that offers plenty of lubrication.
These are some of the most popular types of massage oil:
- Almond oil – Perfect for people with sensitive skin, almond oil is nice and greasy
- Apricot kernel oil – This type of oil offers light lubrication, making it easy to wash off afterwards
- Rose oil has a subtle floral scent and nourishes the skin, leaving it feeling nice and soft
Don’t be afraid to experiment with different oils to find one that works for you. Warming up the oil beforehand can also make your massage feel more sensual (just be sure to check the temperature before pouring it onto your partner).
You don’t need to be an expert to give someone a sensual massage. However, it helps to know a few basic moves. Strike the perfect balance between relaxation and eroticism with the following techniques.
- Get things warmed up by running your palms slowly along the length of your partner’s spine. Use the whole surface of your hands and apply a medium amount of pressure.
- Use both hands to work your partner’s lower back. From there you can slowly work your way downwards (this technique is the perfect segue into arse play)
- Have your partner roll into their stomach, the start gliding your hands up and down their inner thighs. After working their hamstrings for a few minutes, you can let your hands creep towards their erogenous zone.
The trick with giving a good sensual massage is to take things slowly. There’s no point in offering your services as a masseuse if you’re just going to skip the massage part and jump straight into sex.
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