Sex is a vital part of most romantic relationships. Unless you and your partner are perfectly happy to go without, getting it on every now and then is pretty important for most people. If your sex life has lost its spark, it’s time to reignite. We might not be the most conventional source of relationship advice, but when it comes to sex, no one can match our… hands-on expertise. Want to bring your sexless marriage or relationship back from the brink? Here are our tips.
Defining the Problem
Are you worried that your relationship is doomed just because you and your partner don’t have sex as often as you used to? It’s important to remember that every relationship goes through the occasional rough patch. Having less sex every now and then is perfectly normal, especially if you both live busy lives outside of the bedroom.
However, if things don’t improve, you might need to take a closer look at your relationship. Whether one person has a higher sex drive than the other or neither of you are horny anymore, your sex life could be declining for all kinds of reasons. Anything from sleep deprivation to money worries can lead to a lack of sex. Rather than focusing on the issue of sex alone, it’s important to determine what else could be causing tension in your relationship. Once you get to the bottom of those issues, you’ll find it much easier to get in the mood.
Variety is Key
Can you imagine having to eat the same meal for dinner every night of the week? It’d get boring pretty quickly right? Well, sex isn’t actually all that different from food. Rather than sticking with the same old formula, be sure to change up your sex routine every now and then. Trying new things in the bedroom can be daunting, but surely saving your relationship is worth the risk.
Whether you want to experiment with new positions, start using sex toys or even give swinging a try, you have plenty of options when it comes to adding a little variety to your sex life. Whatever you decide to do, your partner needs to just as into the idea as you are. Pressuring them into doing something they’re not comfortable with will only add more tension to the relationship.
Turning your brain off at the end of a long and stressful day can be tricky. But you need to learn how to get out of your head and into your body if you want to start having more sex. To get in the mood, try lighting some candles or put on some romantic music. You’ll be amazed at how subtle changes in your environment can help you relax. With less mundane things on your mind, you’ll be able to focus on your physical needs.
Of course, one of our favourite ways to add some spice to a relationship is by bringing in a third person! Sometimes doing something a bit wild can invite adventure and enthusiasm back into the bedroom. To make a booking with one of our gorgeous women, enquire online or call us on (02) 9955 3345.