Sex and music go together like chocolate and red wine. A good bedroom soundtrack doesn’t just set the mood – it can also help with relaxation and fill any awkward silences.
While your partner takes care of stimulating you visually and physically, music can elevate your pleasure through sound. It can trigger arousing memories of previous sexual encounters, helping to heighten your anticipation. Trust us, music really can be a powerful sex accessory in the bedroom.
You need to get your sex playlist right though. Fast and furious sessions require very different tunes to slow and sensual lovemaking. Choose the wrong jams, or create a sex playlist that’s a little too off the wall, and you could burst the erotic bubble.
Picking your sex songs
First thing’s first: there’s more sexy music out there than just Barry White. Unless he really does turn you on, we’d suggest avoiding that cliché altogether.
It’s also a good idea to avoid any karaoke classics. There’s a time and a place for the B-52s’ ‘Love Shack’, and it isn’t the bedroom. Even if you resist breaking into song while going down on her, cheesy tunes can kill the mood.
When picking your sex songs, choose ones that won’t distract you. Sex playlists should complement your actions, not detract from them. Avoid any tunes that get stuck in your head, or anything too erratic that could throw you off your rhythm.
Music is often associated with certain memories. When picking songs, try to avoid anything that conjures feelings of sadness, anger, or your ex.
Creating the perfect sex playlist
Not all sex is the same – there are quickies, tantric sessions, playful romps and lazy morning sex, to name just a few. Create a range of sex playlists to suit your varying sexual moods.
Once you’ve picked a collection of songs, try to group them together. Look for similarities in terms of tempo and genre. This will help you create a banging playlist to, well, bang to!
Hearing the same songs over and over again can have a negative impact on sex by adding unnecessary pressure. You could end up thinking, ‘By track five, I know I should be going down on her. By track 10, last time we were in doggy style. Should we be doing that again?’
Avoid any sense of predictability by putting your playlist on shuffle.
Some sex playlist suggestions
Struggling to get started with your playlists? Here are a few sex songs to inspire your soundtrack:
- Nine Inch Nails – Perfect Drug
- Nirvana – Molly’s Lips
- Kings of Leon – Sex On Fire
- Royal Blood – Out Of The Black
Lazy Morning Sex
- Placebo – Pure Morning
- Queens of the Stone Age – Make It Wit Chu
- Marvin Gaye – Sexual Healing
- Amy Winehouse – Me & Mr Jones
Slow, Sensual, Lust-Filled Sex
- Arctic Monkeys – One For The Road
- Glass Animals – Cocoa Hooves
- Massive Attack – Angel
- Marcy Playground – Sex And Candy
Music really is great at stirring up sexual feelings. If our sex playlist recommendations have got you in the mood for something intimate, then make a date with one of our beautiful Sydney Select Escorts.