The Kinky Couple’s Guide to Having a Threesome with an Escort
Lots of men (and plenty of women) fantasise about partaking in their very own ménage à trois. There’s something so delightfully sinful about this sex act, you might not think you’ll ever have the chance to act it out in real life – but don’t be so fast to give up on your threesome fantasies! Select Sydney escorts have plenty of girls who’d be happy to bring this naughty daydream to life – you just need to make sure you’ve found the right third wheel!
Planning a threesome can be a tricky business, especially if you’re inviting a third person into you and your partner’s bedroom. It’s important to find someone who can set the mood, put you at ease, and give you a mind-blowing group sex experience without creating any tension or awkwardness. Our step-by-step guide can help you find the perfect candidate for your threesome.
Talk It Over
Before you start browsing our escort gallery for potential threesome attendees, you might want to talk things over with your partner. Making sure you’re both ready for such an intense sexual experience is just as important as finding the right third. It doesn’t matter if you’ve only been dating for a few months or married ten years – threesomes can drastically alter the sexual dynamic of your relationship.
If you’ve been stuck in a rut lately, having group sex can be the spark that reignites the passion you and your partner once had for each other. On the other hand, threesomes don’t work wonders for everyone. Group sex is an acquired taste, and can trigger feelings of jealously or discomfort in some people. This is why it’s almost always better to invite an escort along for the fun, rather than someone you know. If things don’t pan out, imagine the awkwardness when you have to see the person you tried to have a threesome with at dinner parties, work, or the gym. Yikes.
When it comes to threesomes, everyone involved has to be 100% sure they’re up for it – if you start having doubts or second-guessing yourself, don’t be afraid to admit that you may not be ready for a ménage à trois. There’s no need to banish threesome from your bucket list forever – you might just need some time to really come around to the idea, or find a partner who’s more willing to share.
Compromise on Personal Preference
Finding the perfect third wheel is all about compromise. You might be into tall, leggy blondes, while your partner may prefer curvy brunettes. It’s the ultimate first-world problem, but a dilemma nonetheless. Rather than excluding your partner from the process of choosing an escort for your threesome, why not make it a group project? Just imagine the fun you could have going through different escort profiles together. Unless your partner is happy for you to take the reins, teamwork can make the dream work.
Of course, finding an escort you’re both physically attracted to isn’t the only important aspect involved with this process – personality also comes into it. From sweet and innocent to daring and domineering, every escort has a unique disposition. If this is your first ever threesome, you may want to find someone who has the confidence to show you the ropes. Or would you rather be the one calling the shots? Plenty of our escorts have that oh-so-sexy, eager-to-please attitude. No matter what type of personality or physical traits you’re looking for, there’s sure to be a lady to your liking in our escort gallery.
If you want to be really assured you’ve found the right escort, why not meet up with her for a drink first? You and your partner can see what she looks like in person, gauge her personality, and get to know her a little better before you all jump into bed together. It might cost you a little more in the long-run, but arranging a face-to-face meeting is a great way to make sure you’ve found the right girl (it’s also a great way to break the ice).
Set Some Boundaries
Managing expectations and making sure everyone feels comfortable is an important part of planning the perfect threesome. Outlining what you, your partner and your escort are willing to do is the only foolproof way to prevent your ménage à trois from venturing into problematic territory. Instead of being vague with your instructions, set clear and specific rules around consent. This will ensure everyone knows what’s on the table.
Not sure exactly what we mean by setting boundaries? For example, if you and your partner were hoping to indulge in a little light bondage at some point during your threesome, make sure your escort knows exactly what you have planned. While some escorts are up for a little masochistic pleasure, many of our girls prefer to steer clear of that sort of thing. While there should still be room for some spontaneity in your threesome, carefully planning your tryst will ensure you don’t wind up with any regrets.
In the end, it all comes down to good communication – by talking things over with your escort, you and your partner can go into your threesome feeling confident and ready to have the most sensual and exciting sex of your lives.
If you need expert help with finding the perfect escort for your next threesome, get in touch with Select Sydney Escorts today. We can recommend which of our lovely ladies will be the best fit for you and your partner.
