Sexting can be a tricky business. It’s a huge turn on when done right, but there’s a fine line between giving off a playfully sexy vibe and trying too hard. If you’re worried about making a fool of yourself, we can give your sexting confidence a boost. Give some of the following tips a try and, before long, you’ll be sexting like a pro.
The Slow Burn
It’s never a good idea to initiate a sexting convo by sending a barrage of X-rated messages and demanding nudes. The key to keeping it classy is patience; start out slowly with a few subtly flirtatious messages, and if the person you’re talking to seems eager to keep the conversation going, then you can get a little more obvious.
Not sure what we mean by “subtly flirtatious”? For example, if it’s a particularly warm day, send the person a message saying “I’m so hot at the moment… are you?” You could be talking about the weather, or you could be talking about… something else. Then wait and see if they take the bait.
There’s nothing necessarily wrong with using tried and trusted lines like “what are you wearing?” but to really make an impression, try to come up with something a little more original. Using lines that everyone’s heard a million times before can come across as a little lazy. If you can’t think of anything original to say to the person you’re sexting, it’s usually a safe bet to compliment their body, or tell them something they did the last time you hooked up that drove you wild.
Learn How to Take a Quality Nude
First things first – we recommend only sending nudes to someone if:
a. You have been explicitly asked to do so
b. You know from experience that they likes getting nudes from you
c. You are fairly confident that they will enjoy your nudes.
Believe it or not, not everyone finds unsolicited nudes sexy, so it’s always best to check that the person you’re sexting is up for that sort of thing before you start snapping away. But once you’ve got the all clear, you can get creative and experiment with different angles, lighting and props. If you’re worried about privacy, simply crop your face out. And, of course, always delete your nudes! At the very least, save them somewhere a little more private than your phone’s camera roll.
Whether you’re communicating via text, Facebook, Snapchat, WhatsApp or some other form of communication (isn’t technology marvellous?), we can guarantee that these tips will make your sexting style a hundred times classier and cooler.
If you can’t really be bothered with the whole sexting thing and would rather just get straight to business, get in touch with Select Sydney Escorts. We can book you in with one of our ladies today.