Sex can be mind-blowing at the start of a new relationship. But that intensity won’t last forever, right? Don’t be so sure. While every relationship is different, your sex life never really stops changing. From dry spells to infidelity and everything in between, all kinds of ups and downs can come your way.
The Initial Spark
The first few months of every good relationship should involve tons of great sex. Sleeping with someone new is always exciting, especially when you actually like that person and can see a future with them.
You might be a little nervous and awkward around your partner at this phase of the relationship, but that just adds to the thrill! Once you really get to know them, you can let go of your inhibitions and start making the most of that initial spark.
So what happens when the honeymoon phase eventually comes to an end?
The Comfort Zone
After around a year of dating, most couples will have cooled a little on the sex front. Of course, you should still be having plenty of great sex. Even if you don’t get hot and heavy quite as often as you used to, this phase of a long-term relationship can involve some of the best sex of your life.
It’s the perfect middle ground between that awkward but electrifying first phase of a relationship and the point where boredom starts to set in. You’re still into each other (or at least you should be, otherwise what’s the point in staying together?), but you can get comfortable and be yourself. If you’ve always had a secret fetish but never had the courage to tell anyone, this stage of a relationship is the perfect time to get it out in the open.
No matter how much you and your partner like each other, nearly every couple gets stuck in a rut at some point. Whether you don’t have enough time for sex or simply can’t be bothered anymore, this phase can make or break a relationship.
Some people get tempted to cheat on their partner when the sexual spark disappears (if you’re planning to cheat, consider doing the deed with one of our lovely ladies. It’s much less complicated than having an affair with your secretary).
Sexual ruts don’t always result in infidelity. There are plenty of other ways you can spice up your sex life without cheating. And if you can find a way to get back into the swing of things, your relationship will be even stronger.
Obviously not all relationships will follow this exact pattern, but it’s safe to say that most couples experience ups and downs when it comes to their bedroom habits. Just remember, there’s no expiration date on great sex.
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